Weddings has series of moments, it’s a collection of snapshots that, when bound together in the reel of your of memory,may not ever form a collective whole.
Maybe its because weddings are more of a sensory experience which we tend to live them internally, emotionally.
Or maybe we’re just so drunk on love and high spirit which makes us forget every moment during the event that we tend to depend on photographs, video footage, and piecemeal conversations with friends- a snippet, a story there- just to remember it all.
So, I present to you 4 steps that protects you not to ruin the best man speech:
1.Don’t Get Drunk
Yeah, I know it sounds weird. But if you want to give your best friend the greatest best man speech ever, do not drink or the audience is going to start laughing and looking at you, they’ll say to themselves ki n lo so bayii( what is he saying) when they tend to become uncomfortable even though you are saying something meaningful.
2.Write The Points For The Speech
Before you think of even going to the stage to say anything concerning the groom, make sure you have written down points you want to make during the speech like the introduction aspect (greetings), the body of the speech( like how you met the groom, how incredible he is) and the conclusion part.
3.Rehearse Your Speech
I know some of you might ask why should I rehearse a speech written by me? The truth is, when you get to the stage, you won’t be reading from a note like a newscaster! So the best way is to avoid such embarrassment is to rehearse your speech by gathering few friends and family around too hear you give your speech in order to give you a fair idea if the speech is good or bad, or perhaps you need to rewrite a good speech before then.
4.Be Confident
No guest would like to listen to a best man who has a shaky voice, sweaty palm or who is way boring. So, be confident with yourself, your speech and feel free with the audience, relate to them as if you are with your friends, crack jokes (if you can) and have fun.
CHEERS!
Source: Newshubng.com
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